Traveling in a changing world
Traveling for a trans or queer person can be a very liberating and empowering experience. Yes, there are challenges and risks, but there are also many opportunities for growth, self-discovery, and connection. You have the opportunity to define and assert your own identity on your own terms. You are free to express yourself in ways that may not be possible in your home community or social circle. You can experiment with different styles and presentations, explore your gender identity in a new context, and connect with other transgender individuals and communities around the world.
There is the opportunity to challenge and overcome stereotypes and prejudices. By being visible and confident in your identity, you can challenge negative assumptions and educate others about the realities of being transgender. Literally being the change you want to see in the world. You can also connect with other travelers from diverse backgrounds and experiences, and build bridges of understanding and solidarity across cultures and identities.
Finally, traveling while trans can be a transformative and life-affirming experience. By stepping out of your comfort zone and exploring new places and cultures, you can gain a deeper sense of self-awareness, develop new skills and perspectives, and build resilience and confidence in your own identity and abilities. You can also create unforgettable memories and experiences that will stay with you for a lifetime.
But of course it comes with risks and challenges. Transphobia and discrimination are still prevalent in many parts of the world and recognition of gender identity on legal documents like passports and visas is inconsistent. Navigating airport security and other checkpoints can be a daunting or even frightening experience. Being subjected to additional scrutiny or invasive searches can be very triggering or traumatic. And the ever-changing nature of transgender rights and recognition laws can make it difficult to stay informed and prepared. Fortunately, by embracing your identity, being prepared and informed, and seeking out supportive resources and communities, you can create a transformative and empowering travel experience that celebrates your unique identity and perspective.
Research Your Destination
Before traveling, research your destination's laws and customs concerning transgender people. Some countries and regions may be more accepting than others, and it's important to know what to expect. If you're traveling to a country (or a US state) where being transgender is illegal or heavily stigmatized, consider choosing a different destination or postponing your trip until you can travel safely.
Research the laws and regulations related to transgender people in the country or city you plan to visit. Check whether there are any laws prohibiting discrimination based on gender identity and expression, or any specific legal restrictions or requirements for transgender people.
Look for LGBTQ+ resources in the area you plan to visit, such as LGBTQ+ community centers, support groups, or social events. You can use online resources like the International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association (ILGA) or the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) to find these resources.
Travel blogs and forums can be a great source of information for solo travelers. Look for blogs or forums that specifically cater to LGBTQ+ travelers, and read about other trans or queer experiences traveling in the area you plan to visit.
Check the official travel advisories issued by your government or the country you plan to visit. These advisories provide important information on safety and security issues, including any specific risks for LGBTQ+ travelers. The US travel advisories page is a good site to check.
Research accommodations that are LGBTQ+ friendly or have a reputation for being inclusive. Look for hotels or hostels that explicitly state that they are LGBTQ+ friendly or have policies that prohibit discrimination based on gender identity or expression. World Rainbow Hotels or GayTravel are great resources, but nothing beats a great AirBnB whose host already knows you’re coming. (They can be great resources, too!)
You can also reach out to local LGBTQ+ groups or individuals to get a better understanding of the area you plan to visit. While social media platforms like Facebook or Instagram can be a good place to start, you can also join online LGBTQ+ travel groups or forums to connect with other travelers.
Be Mindful of Your Appearance
While you have the right to express yourself however you choose, be mindful of your appearance when traveling to unfamiliar places. In some countries, gender non-conformity is not accepted, and dressing in a way that is perceived as non-conforming may attract unwanted attention.
Consider dressing conservatively to avoid drawing attention to yourself. Dressing in a more understated way may help you blend in and avoid unwanted attention.
Research the local dress code and customs of the country or city you plan to visit. Some countries or regions have stricter dress codes and it's important to be aware of these rules to avoid offending locals.
Consider dressing like the locals to blend in and avoid drawing attention to yourself. This may also help you feel more comfortable in a new environment.
Pack versatile clothing that can be worn in different settings and situations. This will allow you to be prepared for any unexpected situations that may arise.
Avoid wearing flashy or expensive jewelry that may attract unwanted attention or make you a target for theft.
Pay attention to your grooming, including your hair, makeup, and nails. Consider keeping a more natural look to avoid standing out.
Have a Plan
Plan your itinerary in advance and research transportation options, especially if you're arriving in a new city or country. It's important to know how to get to your accommodations safely, and to have a backup plan in case of unexpected issues.
Create a detailed itinerary that outlines your travel plans, including transportation, accommodations, and activities. Share your itinerary with a trusted friend or family member back home so they know your plans and can check in with you periodically.
Research transportation options for getting around your destination, including public transportation, taxis, and ride-sharing services. Consider the safety and reliability of each option and plan accordingly.
Identify safe spaces in the area you plan to visit, such as LGBTQ+ community centers, support groups, or social events. You can use online resources like the International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association (ILGA) or the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) to find these resources.
Have emergency contacts saved in your phone and written down in a travel journal, including the contact information for your embassy or consulate, local emergency services, and any local LGBTQ+ resources you have identified. If you’re staying at an AirBnb, consider asking your host if they’ll be an emergency contact.
Pack a safety kit that includes any necessary medications, a first-aid kit, copies of important documents (such as your passport), and any other items that may be necessary in an emergency.
Use Technology to Your Advantage
In today's digital age, technology can be a valuable tool for staying safe while traveling. Use apps like Google Maps to navigate unfamiliar areas, and use ride-hailing services like Uber or Lyft to get around safely. You can also use social media to connect with local LGBTQ+ communities or to find LGBTQ+ friendly establishments.
Download travel apps like Google Maps, Uber, or Lyft BEFORE you leave home. Also download the offline map of your destination.
Use social media to connect with local LGBTQ+ communities, support groups, or events. This can help you find safe spaces, make new friends, and get advice from locals.
Use safety apps like bSafe, Noonlight, or Companion to help you feel more secure while traveling. These apps allow you to set up a network of contacts who can track your movements, send alerts in case of an emergency, or contact local authorities on your behalf.
Keep in mind that your cellphone might not be able to call or send texts, depending on what service you have. Download messaging or video chat apps like WhatsApp, FaceTime, or Skype to stay in touch with loved ones back home. This can provide peace of mind for both you and your loved ones and help you feel more connected while traveling.
Carry Important Documents
Carry important documents with you at all times, such as your passport, identification, and medical information. Bring backup copies with you just in case they get lost or stolen.
Make sure you have a valid passport and any necessary visas for the country or countries you plan to visit.
Bring a copy of all prescriptions for any medications you need to take with you on your trip, as well as the medications themselves. It's also a good idea to bring extra medication in case of delays or unexpected situations.
Consider purchasing travel insurance that covers medical emergencies, trip cancellations, and other potential issues.
Carry a list of emergency contacts, including the contact information for your embassy or consulate, local emergency services, and any local LGBTQ+ resources you have identified.
If you have legally changed your gender marker, bring a copy of the legal documents with you, as well as any other identification documents that reflect your current gender identity.
If you plan to engage in sexual activity while traveling, bring safe sex supplies like condoms or dental dams!
Trust Your Instincts
If something feels off or you feel unsafe, trust your instincts and remove yourself from the situation. It's better to err on the side of caution and seek help if you need it!
If something feels off or uncomfortable, trust your gut and take action to remove yourself from the situation. Don't hesitate to leave a situation or location if you feel unsafe or uncomfortable.
Be aware of your surroundings at all times and trust your instincts if you sense danger or discomfort. If you feel unsafe or vulnerable, move to a well-lit and populated area or seek out the assistance of a trusted authority figure.
Stay aware of any potential threats in the area, such as pickpockets, scammers, or other criminal activity. Be cautious of strangers who approach you, and keep your valuables hidden and secure.
Your intuition can often alert you to potential danger or uncomfortable situations. If something doesn't feel right, trust your intuition and take steps to protect yourself.
Taking care of yourself physically and emotionally can help you stay more in tune with your instincts and intuition. Make sure to get enough rest, eat well, and engage in self-care activities like meditation or yoga.
Most of all Relax and Have Fun! People will be more inclined to interact with you if you’re confident and at ease.
